
The Luckiest Guy On The Lower East Side
Stephin Merritt was born in 1966, the progeny of two 1960s folk singers. He never knew his father, Scott Fagan, but his mother was deeply entrenched in the hippie ideology and she raised Merritt in a predominately communal environment and within a doctrine of Tibetan Buddhism. They moved often and by the time he was 23 he had lived in 33 different homes in six different states. Merritt has said that he was never presumed to be straight so there was never any need for him to come out. And that kind of nomadic upbringing, coupled with an isolating homosexuality, seems to have made him an outsider, a role he continues to play even now. He was the perpetual new kid, and the characters who reside in his songs reflect that, often being sympathetic outcasts, constantly searching for love and acceptance, but rarely finding it.